Today I went down to Mom and Dad's before I went to town. Dad met me in the kitchen and said, "Come in here, I think something's wrong." Mom was lying in her hospital bed and she didn't appear to be breathing. Upon closer inspection, she wasn't breathing. Her skin was still warm. The home health care worker had just checked on her five minutes before. She died very peacefully. We knew the time would be coming soon, but still, it was a surprise. I'm just glad she no longer has to suffer. Mom was 92 years old.
Mom was very alert on Thursday and had a bit of a cough. The last thing she ate was some chocolate cake with strawberries. That night it turned into a really bad cough and she was vomiting. We called Hospice and they came and gave her some medicine and some morphine. But the cough persisted. We were just getting ready to make the decision whether to bring in some oxygen to help her breathe better. Her body just finally gave up the fight. Dad is taking it pretty hard. He and Mom were married just short of 62 years. My sister and I will meet with the mortuary tomorrow to finalize the funeral arrangements.
Mom fell and broke her shoulder six years ago this month. She has had quite a time of it since then. Lots of falls and trips to the ER. Mom was also diagnosed with dementia about this time too. Once in a while she would get agitated, but for the most part she was usually in a good mood.
This Bird has flown to heaven now. I'm sure she's getting it all straightened out up there. Maybe she's even baking a homemade apple pie.
Rest in peace, Mom. I miss you!!!
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